Embracing Your Feminine Power in Real Estate Investing
In school, we’re taught to approach the world (including money and investing) from a masculine paradigm. What works for men is presumed to work for everyone. But guess what? We’re not just smaller, less hairy men. We are chromosomally different. Our brains and bodies are wired differently, and these differences significantly influence how we handle money and investments.
Today, we're exploring how embracing these differences can lead to incredible success in real estate and beyond for women.
Why Women Approach Investing Differently
For many men, investing feels like a thrilling challenge. For women, it can feel like a threat, triggering fear and hesitation. This fear can keep us from even starting, or it can push us to hand over our financial decisions to someone else. But here’s the thing: when we do step into the game, we often outperform men. We seek expert advice, take thoughtful actions, and achieve better results. The problem is, too many of us let fear hold us back.
The Goddess Secret Sauce
Here’s where the magic happens. I’ve developed what I call the "Goddess Secret Sauce," a feminine approach to investing and life that can transform everything. This secret sauce has four key ingredients: pleasure, intuition, mindset, and sisterhood.
Pleasure: The Path to Success
Forget the “no pain, no gain” nonsense. For women, it’s all about pleasure. When we enjoy what we’re doing, we’re more productive, creative, and resilient. So, how can you bring more pleasure into your daily routine?
- Take Pleasure Breaks: Feeling stuck? Stop and do something that makes you happy. Dance, take a walk, cuddle with your pet, or have a mini spa session.
- Add Joy to Tasks: If you have to do something tedious or unpleasant, find a way to make it pleasurable. Listen to your favorite music, wear something that makes you feel fabulous, or turn it into a game.
Intuition: Trust Your Gut
Women’s intuition is real, and it’s powerful. Our brains are designed to connect logical thinking with gut feelings, giving us insights that often defy logic. Women’s brains have connections between the left and right hemispheres that men’s do not. These connections make women more intuitive and connected to this higher wisdom. Learn to recognize and trust your intuitive hits. Whether it’s a feeling, a sudden thought, or an image in your mind, your intuition is a valuable guide.
Mindset: Shifting from Fear to Abundance
Our beliefs shape our reality. If you’re operating from a place of fear, it’s time to rewire your mindset. Embrace the idea of abundance and open yourself up to new opportunities. This shift isn’t just about thinking positively; it’s about fundamentally changing how you view the world and your place in it.
Sisterhood: The Power of Community
We thrive in community. Being around supportive, like-minded women can boost our confidence, reduce stress, and enhance our learning. Find your tribe, a group of women who lift you up and inspire you. Remember, there’s more than enough success to go around. When one of us wins, we all win.
Putting It All Together
So, how do we bring this Goddess Secret Sauce into our investing strategy? Here’s a quick recap:
- Embrace Pleasure: Make joy a priority in your life and work.
- Trust Intuition: Listen to that inner voice and let it guide your decisions.
- Shift Your Mindset: Move from fear-based thinking to an abundance mindset.
- Build Sisterhood: Surround yourself with supportive women who encourage and inspire you.
Ready to Dive Deeper?
If this resonates with you, I invite you to join our Millionaire Real Estate Investor Goddess program. It’s designed to help women like you succeed by leveraging the Goddess Secret Sauce with foundational real estate investing principles. You’ll get the skills, accountability, and mentorship you need to surpass your goals with joy and pleasure.
