Why Fun is Your Secret Weapon in Real Estate (and Life)

 Let me ask you a question: When was the last time you had fun?

And I mean real, pure, childlike fun — the kind that makes you lose track of time, makes your heart race with excitement, and brings a smile to your face long after it's over?

Here’s the secret — don’t think of fun as a luxury. It’s a necessity. Especially if you’re in the world of real estate investing. Yes, real estate.

Let me explain.

1. Fun Supercharges Your Brain

We often think of real estate as numbers, contracts, and negotiations. And yeah, all that matters. But there’s something far more powerful that you’re probably overlooking: your creativity.

The right brain — that’s the part responsible for creativity, intuition, and spatial awareness — is essential for solving problems. And trust me, if you’re in real estate, you’re going to need a lot of creative problem-solving.

Every property comes with its challenges. Every deal needs a unique solution. The more creative you are, the better you’ll make things work when others are stuck. But here’s the kicker: creativity isn’t something you can force. You can’t schedule creativity like a 9-to-5 meeting.

The secret? Fun. When you add fun into your life, you stimulate your right brain. You literally create new neural pathways that help you come up with fresh ideas and innovative solutions. And in real estate, those creative solutions can be the difference between a closed deal and a missed opportunity.

2. Fun Lowers Stress and Increases Success

Let’s get real: stress is inevitable, especially in real estate. But here’s what most people don’t understand — stress doesn’t just feel bad; it makes you worse at your job. It reduces your ability to think clearly, make decisions, and take action.

When you’re stressed, your cortisol levels spike. It’s like putting a mental fog between you and the actions you need to take to succeed. You want to move forward, but everything feels harder. And who wants that?

That’s where fun comes in.

Playfulness lowers your cortisol levels. It reduces stress and helps you think more clearly. When you’re relaxed, you make better decisions. You’re more confident, more focused, and — let’s be honest — more fun to be around. People want to work with you when you’re radiating positive energy. And trust me, in real estate, that magnetic energy is key to closing deals.

3. Creativity in Real Estate: It’s Your Golden Ticket

Listen, if you’re only going to the MLS to find properties, you’re missing out. There are dozens of creative ways to find properties, structure deals, and finance investments. Real estate isn’t just about outbidding others. It’s about out-thinking them.

How many ways can you structure a deal? More than you think.

How many different offers can you make to a seller that go beyond just money? So many.

Here’s a story for you: I once closed on an apartment building, even though my offer was $50,000 less than the other bidder’s. How? Because I was creative. I offered certainty. I found ways to meet the seller’s true needs — timing, ease of transaction, you name it.

That’s what creativity does. It opens doors when others are shut. It gives you the ability to see opportunities where others see obstacles.

4. How to Inject Fun into Your Real Estate Investing

You don’t have to overhaul your life to bring in more fun. Start small. Every day, ask yourself: How can I make today more fun? How can I make this task — whether it’s researching a property or running numbers — more enjoyable?

Here’s a challenge for you: try something new every day for the next week. Whether it’s dancing around your living room, going for a walk in nature, or attending a new networking event with a fun twist, just try it. Notice how it changes your mood, your energy, and your creativity.

In my Real Estate Investor Goddesses Millionaire Investor Program, we focus on having fun and pleasure daily. It’s not an afterthought — it’s a priority. Why? Because when you’re having feeling pleasure and having fun, you’re more motivated, more inspired, and, ultimately, more successful.

5. Your Success Depends on This One Thing

Real estate investing is more than just building wealth. It’s about building a life you love. A life that excites you, fuels you, and gives you freedom. But here’s the truth: if you’re not having enjoying yourself along the way, what’s the point?

Success without joy is empty. It’s fleeting. But when you make fun part of the process, you create something far more powerful than just financial success — you create a life that feels good every single day.

So, stop waiting until you “make it” to start having fun. Start now. Inject play into your daily routine, and watch how everything changes — your mindset, your creativity, your stress levels, and yes, your success.

Fun is your secret weapon. Use it wisely. And I promise, you’ll not only build wealth — you’ll enjoy every step of the journey.

Go out there and play. Your future self will thank you for it.